Have Some Fun

This post is about the latest book I'm reading.

(After my last post I'm thinking I should find a book about how to handle sick children better, not put a baby on a couch when a midwife is coming to check how the mom's doing and how to keep up with a baby's doctor's appointments.)

I found the book at the LDS bookstore by the temple. It's called Piggyback Rides and Slippery Slides--How to Have Fun Raising First-Rate Children. Here are some of the chapters: Bedtime is Playtime, Playing with Your Food, Playing in the Great Outdoors and Turning Work into Play. I have tried some of the ideas and like the results.

Why I like the book:
I readily admit I'm not creative, and I am more than happy to become a better mom by using other people's great ideas.
It reminds me that I have so many moments with my kids that I am not using to the fullest to just enjoy being with them as opposed to counting down the time to bedtime.
I like being a mom when I'm having fun.

Happy Monday?

It's been a rough morning. Hannah has been fighting a cold and cough that has made her miserable. I feel for her and I pray for a very quick recovery so that both of us can be happy again! Lizzie now has her cold and cough. After a long morning of Hannah crying because I put jelly on her toast after she "asked" me to and then honey on her toast because she "asked" me to and then screaming for jelly and cookies and chocolate she spent some time in her room in her new big girl bed. (She finally figured out she can climb out of her crib last week!) Because of all of Hannah's screaming I put a sleeping Lizzie on the couch and shut the door to the living room so Hannah could scream to her heart's content in her room upstairs.
I took a shower during one of her tantrums and got ready for the day. A few moments later the doorbell rang. It was the midwife. She could tell by my face that I forgot she was coming. She was there to give me a postnatal depression test! After the morning I had had I was ready to hand Hannah over to her and run away.
Here were my thoughts as I led the nice midwife to my living room:
I'm so glad I'm dressed.
I'm so glad Hannah's dressed.
I'm so glad my house is relatively clean. (Only because the home teachers came by last night and the whole family did a whirlwind clean up!)
And then we walked into the living room where I had left a sleeping baby on the couch! Lizzie had pulled the blanket over her face, so I quickly pulled it off before the midwife saw. At least she wasn't there earlier watching me handle Hannah's screaming. :) So far, I wasn't scoring many points for a model mom.
The midwife asked me how old Lizzie was. "Ummm...I think about 9 or 10 weeks." (What mother doesn't know how old her child is????) By the way, I checked. She's 10 1/2 weeks.
Is she rolling over? "Yes, from her stomach to her back."
Oh, well the best place for her might be the floor. "Right."
Did she have her 6 week well baby check? "No."
Oh, well we need to get her in for that. "Yeah, I'll call today for an appointment." I called right after she left.
When was her last weight check? "Ummm...I haven't taken her in to weigh her yet."
O.K. Bring her in to check her weight. "Yeah, o.k. I'll do that this week." Tomorrow.
She asked some questions about Lizzie's cold and said I might need to make an appointment for a poor baby check. Of course, this would be separate from the 6 week well baby appointment and weight check appointment. When I took Lizzie in for her 6 week immunizations (at 8 weeks) I thought the nurse would weigh Lizzie and do a well baby check. But no, immunizations are done on Thursdays and weight checks are done on Tuesdays and well baby checks are done when I make the appointment!!!!!!!!!!! When I told the midwife that in America these things are all done at ONE appointment, she smiled and said "Different systems." I would choose something other than "different", like "more efficient" or "easier on the moms."

And then the postnatal depression test. After reading the first sentence "In the past 7 days..." I thought, "I already know I'm not going to score very high." The last week Jon was not home before midnight most nights and 3 of the girls are fighting colds and I had Enrichment Night I was doing. You can interpret that how you would like, but if you know me well, last week was a long one. But, I was happy to see my score of 7 out of 30 (with zero being the perfect score saved for mothers who don't leave little babies on the couch!)

Updates

Here's a quick update on where the girls are at:

Loves to go to the farm so she can wear her 'wellies'.

Sadly, the "choo choo train" model village closed until February. Hannah burst into tears the first time I told her. We drive by almost everyday to check to see if the gates are open or closed! The other day she was pretty frustrated that it wasn't opened--she wanted to go in anyway. I told her I didn't have the key so when we got home she went to find a key. It didn't matter to her that this key only opened a Polly Pockets castle!

Loves her baby Lizzie! And yes she is wearing a swimsuit. She is patiently waiting for her dad to find her a swimming pool somewhere in England.

Her favorite show is In the Night Garden with characters with names like Upsy Daisy, Makka Pakka, Tombliboos and Igglepiggle. It's pretty cute when she mimics the voices.

Loves to dance and recently learned how to ride a bike in 2 tries!

Many tears have been shed the last few months when Mom and Dad have asked her to wear warmer clothes. A skirt and short-sleeved shirt with no coat is not appropriate for weather in the 30s and 40s. She told me to just find her fuzzy tights so she can keep wearing skirts in frigid weather! Pants are like a punishment to her! We make deals like, "Wear the pants while we go ride bikes and then as soon as you come inside you can put your skirt back on."

Last week she came home from school and said, "Mrs. Blair said I have to wear 3 layers." And that's all it took! Every night her outfit is laid out and we count the layers--a short sleeved shirt over a long sleeved shirt with a jacket. I laugh every time she comes out of her room with 3 skirts on!

This has taught me who she really listens to. Next time I have any difficulties I'm emailing her teacher to sort it out!!!!!!!!!

Loves to be happy and says great phrases like "straight away", "you're a clever girl" and "when we lived in America".

Lost another tooth and learned the lesson that sometimes the Tooth Fairy is silly and forgets to look in tooth pillows for teeth!

Loves Lizzie's smiles and listening to Lizzie coo while she sings to her.

Thanksgiving Week

Our great Thanksgiving Week with great family:

We saw the changing of the guards at Buckingham Palace

Hannah and her lovely cousin visited Odds Farm with their hungry sheep, huge pigs and tractors that take you wherever you want

We went to the London Temple

We found a 1,000 year old village with this great-looking stone church

Lizzie was happy about her blessing from Jon. She was happy her uncle could be there!

The girls were happy to smile for the camera after church.

We're thankful for happy, giggly girls!

Jon was thankful we had someone to play Rook with.

Dressing up and dancing like ballerinas

Things I'm grateful for:

I was especially grateful this year to not have to make Thanksgiving dinner!

Family who will come all the way to England just to bring us peanut butter, coconut, pudding, a baby monitor, Sharpies, cardstock and a binky clip!

I am still amazed that I am living in England. Fall was absolutely beautiful here. I couldn't get enough of it. It's my favorite season! Is there anything better than the trees changing colors and everything looking so golden?

It's Fun!

Someone recently told Jon about an online radio that I am having lots of fun with! Here's what they say about themselves:

Q: What is Pandora?
Pandora is a music discovery service designed to help you enjoy music you already know, and to help you discover new music you'll love.
It's powered by the most comprehensive analysis of music ever undertaken, the Music Genome Project: a crazy project started back in early 2000 to capture the complex musical DNA of songs using a large team of highly-trained musicians.
Just tell us one of your favorite songs or artists and we'll launch a streaming station to explore that part of the musical universe.

I've started three stations: Ingrid Michaelson, Jack Johnson and Peter Breinholt. What are some of your favorite musicians/groups that I could explore? I love finding new things!!

Now, does anyone know a site like this that I could use for books?

Harrod's Christmas Parade

This morning the girls and I woke up early to go to the Harrod's Christmas Parade. Our neighbors, Bill and Ann (from Ireland) and their 3 girls have been going for 10 years and had the whole parade memorized. We followed them in which made parking much easier. Ann helped Emily up to the front, Rachel sat on Bill's shoulders, and Hannah was passed around until she ended up on my shoulders, Lizzie slept peacefully through the whole thing in her Snuggli.

It was a festive way to welcome in Christmas!

We waved to Father Christmas--drawing attention by yelling out Santa Claus! Mrs. Christmas was in a separate carriage.

We were lucky enough to have snow blown in just for the occasion!

We saw really tall people riding on tall bikes.

When I woke up Hannah this morning she greeted me with a great laugh that continued through the parade! It's so much fun to see a parade through a child's eyes, isn't it? She loved the big bubbles.

There were characters from Peter Pan and "Alicia Wonderland". The girls liked the silly dancing pirates, but I thought the red roses were pretty.

Is there a new Chipmunks movie coming out? Because Simon, Alvin and Theodore were greeting all the kids. They got my kids' attention!

And what's a parade without a man with a seal?

Happy Halloween!

Emily the Good Witch and Rachel the 50s Girl

Tinkerbell Hannah and a Cute (but tired) Lizzie

Halloween this year was a little different than previous years. It's not a big holiday here even though it originated here. I heard several people refer to it as the "American holiday." Outside of grocery stores I didn't see any decorations, the candy and costume selections were minimal. Thankfully, I only had to buy Emily's costume, and since I waited until Halloween Day I got it half price!!! (Procrastination pays!)

The girls were very excited to go trunk or treating at our church and collect a few cups of sugar--I mean a few kilograms of candy.

The British might not be big into a holiday for ghosts, but they are big into a holiday (on Nov. 5) where they get to burn effigies in big bonfires.